Creating Meaningful Connections Through Facebook

Facebook

I know, this blog is more about business topics, right?  And Facebook is more about sharing pictures of the kids and locating long-lost high school buddies — for business, you go to LinkedIn, right?  These are both true statements, but there are definitely business-related benefits to Facebook.

At first, I didn’t see it either.  I signed up a year or so ago, simply because that’s what you’re supposed to do, and left the account dormant for months.  I don’t remember what prompted me to pick it back up, but I now have over 400 “friends,” consisting of friends (naturally), parents of my son’s classmates, local City Council members, and even clients and other people that I do business with.  I’ve since created pages for my own company, and one for iMAGINE Alexandria, both of which have attracted a lot of “fans.”

I’ve found that Facebook creates an opportunity that LinkedIn doesn’t: I’ve been able to learn a lot about the people I know — personally and professionally, beyond my normal interactions with them.  Status updates, wall posts, vacation photos; these all let me know real-time what they’re up to, providing insight into their lives and creating deeper connections with these people.

Conversations no longer begin with “so how’s it going?”, which prompts a superficial response like “fine, how are you?”, which in a business setting often signals the end of the pleasantries.  I can now say things like “why did Tommy have to go to the hospital last week?”  We then have a much deeper and more meaningful conversation about child-rearing and the joys (read: extreme anxiety and questioning one’s parenting skills) of late-night visits to the Emergency room.

If you’re a small business owner or business development professional (or anyone who regularly comes in contact with clients), here’s the nugget: these deeper insights are not limited to friends, but to business contacts as well.  Knowing what’s happening on a personal level strengthens the relationship, resulting in greater loyalty in the business space.

Just be sure to filter those Fourth of July party pictures!

2 comments


  1. Ryan Moede said

    September 28, 2009 - 10:11 pm

    Great post, Dennis. It’s so nice to be able to skip right over the generic intro questions! I think Facebook Connect (and similar social graph portability tools) have some of the most fascinating potential for transforming how we use the web, and ultimately, how we build relationships with one another. Be sure to check out this presentation when you get the chance: http://bit.ly/7Ow60


  2. Jeff Stone said

    October 10, 2009 - 10:44 pm

    I enjoyed your post, Dennis. We’ve not met, but I’ve met most everyone else. With the SuperGroup, and am a fan of your agency. I agree with you wholeheartedly about what FB can deliver to a client facing professional. In the past year, post meeting, I’ve entered folks that I’ve met in the CRM, sent a thank you (with any follow-up naturally), invited them to link up over Linkedin, and when I feel that the vibe is right (meaning that they’d not be offended, I suppose it’s a gut feel) I also send a FB invite. It is very true that you can establish a better understanding, and a deeper relationship by monitoring/nurturing these relationships over FB vs. Linkedin. Though I deeply depend on Linkedin, and have for a few years now, I do think it is possible for FB to overtake it in time (though it might be a new sub-product). Thanks for getting me thinking…hope to meet you at your 10.29 event. Jeff

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